-- On the 46th day of Christmas, we finally took down our tree. I missed the fun, as I was at work. It is long past the time that the city would come around and pick up said tree. So, my creative wife used a handsaw to cut the tree into several pieces that would fit in the garbage can, much as one would a body that needed discrete disposal (or so I've heard). All this done under cover of darkness. The neighbors will never be any the wiser. Only our garbage man knows for sure.
-- Got my order of intimates from Soma last week. I use my therapist's office for delivery of feminine items, no explaining mysterious packages at home that way, and the kids won't make any accidental discoveries. Soma was having a huge sale. I got two lovely panties, a camisole, and a very nice bra for less than $35. I have been wearing the bra quite a bit, as it is a much better fit than previous acquisitions. I love looking down and seeing mounds there.
-- I have a newfound passion to practice makeup technique. I got the basics down some time ago, and merely do the same simple routine anytime that I dress fully. Now, though, I have acquired some nice brushes, and I'm eager to see what they will do for me. I have mineral foundation and eyeshadows that haven't been touched. No more tiny sponge eyeshadow applicators for this girl. Let the games begin.
-- I don't have any real evidence to back up my inkling, but I suspect that there will be no more intimacy until my leg hair returns. Epilating has been a godsend, making my legs seem freshly shaven for more than a week. I think that Mrs. L probably believes that I am shaving very frequently, based on the way my legs look. She still isn't privy to the existence of the epilator. I'm past the two week mark at the moment, and I'm just starting to notice the hair beneath my pantyhose. I have some hope that my hair has been permanently thinned, that my summer look will not be so hirsute this year. Growth is much slower and sparser. Love it!
Anyway, Mrs. L has not been at all nasty about any of this, but several opportunities for intimacy have been quietly bypassed. Nothing said, but also, alas, nothing done. With Valentine's Day this weekend, I have to wonder whether I should go the lingerie route. I did that last year, and it didn't get broken in for a couple months. Not relishing a repetition, or a wasted gift.
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5 hours ago

There is nothing quite like the excitement of a mail-order package from a girl store, illicit or otherwise. :) Enjoy them!
ReplyDeleteMy experience WRT leg hair is different from yours. The big surprise is that my wife would not be too worried if I did epilate my legs, I think that is because we both cycle so she's used to seeing blokes without leg hair. Whether she changes her tune if I do it remains to be seen though.
The observation I would make WRT Valentines gifts is that one's wife, however she may react at times, still appreciates being appreciated. It's up to you to judge the level of the gift in question, but the fact that you are showing your appreciation for her will not pass unnoticed.
I'm scouring the High Street for an elusive piece of jewellery here.
The leg hair was not an issue with Mrs Stace (nor the arm hair), but I have been doing that for many years off and on.
ReplyDeleteIt scares me that you know how to dispose a body! (Or so you've heard) I thought it was bad where I grew up and they wouldn't dispose of one there, though maybe they would just not have the intelligence... Well done with the discrete tree disposal anyway ;)
Valantines gifts? To be honest we buy each other stuff through out the year, and normally ignore 14th Feb anyway - instead picking different date around the start of March for a nice romantic meal.
Stace
I'm with Stace, re: (Or so you've heard). Leslie, you are beginning to scare me!
ReplyDeleteGifts of lingerie can be tricky. Why not try taking Mrs. L out to a really nice place for dinner? That way you would get to spend some quality time with each other, and there would be no pressure on her respond sexually. Be affectionate, but leave it up to her to decide if intimacy is in the cards.
Melissa XX
wow.... ligth b,lue touch paper and retire!
ReplyDeleteI'm with the girl from ole Virginny on this one, pet!
Hugs
chrissie
xxx
And nobody has to wash the dishes!
ReplyDeleteCaroline xxx
Just make sure you get a reservation if one is needed.
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