Tuesday, March 16, 2010

2nd Blogiversary

Grab a party hat, get a piece of cake on your way in, pin a tail on a jackass (me, if you like). Two years ago today, I started this enterprise. The first year was on the late and unlamented Yahoo 360, where I was very comfortable and nearly invisible. Any given blog was read by maybe 20 people, with 2 or 3 comments from regulars. As 360 was in its death throes, Lori paid me a huge compliment by encouraging me to move my blog to T-Central.

After the move, I was out of my comfort zone. I was concerned that I was more T-Peripheral than T-Central. It seemed that everyone here was all about transition, something that didn't appear to be in my future. Lori sent me over to Calie's blog, and I made my first new friend. I learned to fight my shy nature, and reach out to bloggers that I admired or felt a commonality with. Much comradery ensued.

I started writing at the height of my dysphoria and depth of my depression. I was not in a good way then, and some posts were rather intense. I think the cliche is true: Pain produces the best art. At least that's how it worked for me. Yes, I am dropping false modesty here. I am proud of 90% of the material in my blog. It isn't great art by any means, but it's the best I've ever done by a wide stretch.

I thought this would be a good opportunity to look back at some of my favorite posts. I know there are some of you who have waded through the entirety of this blog, and, well, bless your hearts. You have a pass to the back room, with soft incandescent lighting and an open bar. The rest of you are invited to partake of the best of OoMM.

My favorite piece is a letter that I wrote to my wife but never delivered, featured in Whose Day Is It Anyway? Then there was the time that I underestimated her, revealing that I had a blog, and arrogantly thinking she wouldn't find it. That fall from grace is in Worlds Collide.

I like to think that I'm funny, and a few entries have even reflected that. The Motherlode, and my very first post, If you're too hirsute, you can't wear her suit, are prime examples. My best effort at early history is in Languid and Bittersweet.

I'm proud of the bulk of the writing here, and would recommend more but for pitying the poor tired reader. Frankly, after more than 200 entries, I don't readily remember some of it. I never for a minute thought I had this in me. I detested writing in school, and did my best to avoid it after. Then it forced its way out of my mind.

Thank you all for your interest and friendship and support.

11 comments:

  1. Gefeliciteerd! (yes that really is a word :) )

    Here's to the next 200.

    Stace

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  2. Congrats on the two years and the couple hundred posts! Keep it up, there are many of us enjoying your thoughts. I haven't been at it nearly as long as you, or many others, I used to be able to get release from talking things over with my wife. But I do go back and reread what I thought in the past (my diary especially) and see how my thoughts and perceptions have changed over time.

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  3. Er, noone told me it was supposed to take 2 years to reach 200 posts. Does that mean I get to take the next year off? LOL.

    Perhaps your attempt to hide away from the written words are a mirror to the life you hide away as well. They both are wonderfully lovely and sadly do not get enough exposure to the outside world. The life expectancy of most blogs keeps the coffin makers in business and I am glad to see them going broke from yours. If we apply the standard "in for a penny, in for a pound" then we can start planning the gold watch ceremony in another 14 years.

    Keep up the uberstandard work (no pressure or anything like that on ya).

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  4. Congratulations.

    I know exactly what you mean about never knowing you had it in you, the keyboard turns out to be a surprisingly good medication for ones gender issues, doesn't it.

    Here's to the next 200, keep 'em coming!

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  5. Happy Anniversary m'dear. When I stumbled upon your stuff in spring of '09, I lapped up the whole thing in a single sitting.

    Exposed, honest and borderline penitential. Cuttingly funny and chock full of references that assume that the reader not only paid for an education but rather enjoys using it. Sometimes despairing but, so far, resolving in forward progress and the promise of happy endings.

    I read a lot. Your blog is one of my musts.

    Thanks for all - Petra

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  6. Congrats, girlfriend!

    I love your writing and your sense of humor.

    And, btw, thanks for being such a good friend!

    Calie xxx

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  7. Dear Leslie,

    The first word I read when I opened the comments was: “gefeliciteerd”, which is Dutch for” congratulations”. Since I am Dutch, this triggered me to give a comment also. Thank you Stace.

    Leslie, right from the first time I did read your blog I was touched by the way you were describing your life (and I still am): with humor, distinction, respect for the feelings of significant others, well chosen words and sometimes so poetic. Please, realize this is comforting and inspiring.

    We all like to see our girlimage in the mirror but having an open eye for the world beyond that image is very important.

    For me, living a lonely life in the closet is no longer an option. I’m trying to merge my desire to dress in daily life. My beloved wife is absolutely not “amused” and so are my three sons. But slowly things are developing in a way that makes me hopeful...

    I do not want to get lost in internet-space, so I am very glad to follow your blog, it’s like an anchor. Keep on keepin’on

    Thank you so much, (dank je wel)
    Corinna

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  8. Congratulations on staying the distance, so many blogs dwindle and die or get deleted after the first year or so. Well done Leslie.

    Go Girl!

    helen xx

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  9. Congratulations on this amazing accomplishment and keep blogging away :-)!!

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  10. Congrats on your 2 years posting. I have found it interesting and helpful. You're a sweet heart.


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